Our Ethos and Guiding Principles

Our work is rooted in core beliefs shaped by both training and lived experience. These values guide how we show up—with care, creativity, and courage—and reflect the kind of space we strive to create: safe, expansive, affirming, and deeply human.

The Sexual Self is Foundational

I believe the sexual self is not a side note in our development—it’s central to how we understand identity, power, connection, and meaning. This belief informs everything I do. I support clients in exploring their relationship to sexuality in ways that are culturally aware, personally liberating, and deeply healing. This lens—one I call Sexistentialism—guides the integration of desire, selfhood, and emotional growth throughout the lifespan.

Sex Positivity & Deshamifying

All consensual expressions of sexuality are valid and worthy of exploration without shame. At the core of sex positivity is the process of deshamifying—dismantling the shame and stigma surrounding identity, intimacy, and desire. Together, we’ll challenge societal scripts and build a relationship with your sexual self that is joyful, affirming, and rooted in your values.

Intersectionality is Essential

Your identities—race, gender, culture, class, body, ability, sexuality—don’t exist in isolation, and neither do the systems that affect them. I practice through an intersectional lens, acknowledging how oppression and privilege shape our lived experiences. I am committed to ongoing anti-racist, culturally responsive work and to holding space that honors BIPOC clients, multiracial identities, and the unique ways culture intersects with healing and sexuality.

Gender-Affirming Care

I celebrate and affirm all gender identities and expressions. Whether you’re exploring your gender, seeking validation, or navigating systemic or relational harm, I meet you with respect, curiosity, and support. My goal is to help you feel seen, understood, and empowered to live and love authentically—in your body, your relationships, and your truth.

Kink and BDSM-Affirming Practice

Kink and BDSM are valid, powerful forms of connection, embodiment, and identity. I offer a nonjudgmental space to explore these practices safely and consensually. Whether you're curious, experienced, healing from harm, or integrating kink into your relational life, I’m here to walk with you.

Connection is Healing

Relationships are where so much of our wounding happens—and where much of our healing can, too. I support clients in navigating relational dynamics with honesty and care, making space for trust, rupture, repair, and new patterns of connection.

Pleasure and Boundaries Can Coexist

Together, we explore how pleasure can be a compass, and how boundaries can be acts of care and clarity. You don’t have to choose between feeling good and feeling safe—you deserve both.

Growth is Nonlinear

Growth is not a straight line. It spirals, loops, pauses, and blooms in unexpected ways. In this space, we don’t measure progress by perfection—we honor your rhythm. Blooming takes time, and possibility unfolds in every direction.

Patience, Presence, and Permission

These three values are at the heart of everything I do:

Patience for your pace, your process, and the layers that unfold over time.
Presence to witness you fully, without judgment or agenda.
Permission to show up as you are—messy, brilliant, uncertain, evolving.

This is the energy I offer in the room, and the energy I hope you learn to offer yourself.

Authenticity: Bringing My Whole Self Into the Room

I don’t believe in hiding behind a professional mask. I show up as a real person—imperfect, attuned, and fully present. Like you, I am constantly growing, learning, and unlearning. I don’t ask clients to do work I’m not willing to do myself.

In our work together, we engage in a living, relational process. How we show up with each other—what feels safe, what feels activating, what feels nourishing—becomes part of the work itself. This is a space where honesty and vulnerability are welcomed, where laughter and grief are both sacred, and where we explore new ways of being in connection, together.